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人与人之间的代沟
Sunday, September 9, 2007

每个人一定会有自己诉苦的对象.人如果把什么事都放在心里的话,迟早一天会爆发.所以找个相信的人把自己的内心世界告诉对方,做人也会开心和舒服点.
可是真的是如此吗?其实我知道是可以的.至少当你遇到问题不懂如何解决时,对方会给点意见,你也觉得安慰点.
朋友之间可能可以.可是母女呢?家人呢?可以吗?
我觉得最难沟通的对象是家人,尤其是"自己人".为什么这么说?
父母与儿女之间一定会有代沟.孩子永远不会明白父母的心到底有多痛.要等到儿女长大成为孩子父母时才真真体会到做爸妈的辛苦.就好象天父与我们一样.当我们做神所不喜悦的事时,神也是很伤心.
有时我在想:如果选择什么都不说那不是更好吗?有时说太多,他问你的的问题还多.你有所保留,他就宁愿你不说.(可是有些年轻人的想法就是这样,不太愿意把自己的内心世界完完全全说完出来,总想保留一点私隐给自).咳.....我知道这些全是出于他们的关心,爱心.其实他们也很想知道他们自己的孩子到底在想什么.有些父母就忽略了孩子的内心世界,只认为孩子需要什么就给什么,物质上的需要....等等!有些家庭的父母和儿女建立了一个好象朋友的关系.这点是好的.既然说到关系好象朋友那么好,中间真的没有代沟吗?怎么说都好,父母始终是父母,儿女还是儿女.身份和地位永远不同.打个比喻:如果你觉得父母做错事,你告诉他们.他们会给什么反应你?如果心情好时可能会哦哦哦来回答你.如果心情不好时?你就最好什么都不要说.因为那时他什么都听不进去.可是你又明明知道那是不对的事情,那你该怎么办呢?照直说??哇...如果你是这样的话,我真的写个"服"字给你.
其实我们做儿女的只是希望父母能了解,明白我们.小时候我们的确很顽皮,可是人会慢慢长大.也会有自己的思想,想法....不是每一次都是你们对的!你们每次说"我们吃米多过你们吃饭"..我总不信你们没犯过错.你们每次说我们永远不明白做大人,做父母的辛苦.我们当然不懂...我们还没当别人的父母.
咳.......父母们啊,听听我们的心声好吗?你们觉得我们小孩子也好,不成熟也好,不会想的好,胡说八道也好....就听听吧.应该不会浪费你们很多时间吧?你们一定是说我们不和你们说哦!咳.....你们先把你们那"爸爸妈妈"样子和那"我一定对"的脑袋放下吧,我们自然而然会开口啦!
这样慢慢的....人与人之间的关系将会越来越进.这世界将充满开心的笑声.

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